Some of the emails I started to get (everyone in the
office got) were to point me in the right direction and prove that the church
was not a cult.
This is a touchy post as it mentions the
gay-lifestyle. Please remember these are not my views but the views of those in
House of Prayer as taught to them based on their interpretation of the Bible or
by their leader Rony Denis.
In no way am I condoning their interpretation and this
post is not an open invitation to share your personal views of that lifestyle.
I love everyone regardless of race, religion and sexual orientation.
There is
plenty of hatred already in the world. It is also not for me to judge.
In fact I’ll start and give credit where credit is
due. As I’ve said before not everyone in House of Prayer is a bad person or
manipulator or a greed mongering leader.
Many are just folks who truly believe they are in a
place of worship that is serving God.
I got one email from CJ Vargas that was dated 7/3/2017
and it starts out talking about the good things he and the church have done:
“I have been a part of the food bank/homeless ministry,
nursing home ministry, and are beginning our jail ministry soon. I would love
to invite you to one of our next community outreach events so that you can see
firsthand the good things that God is doing right here in our community. We go
into lower income areas Hinesville and surrounding areas to bring spiritual
relief because many of these people seem to be neglected and forgotten. From
time to time in some of the worst areas of town you see us talking to those who
are hurting and forgotten. In the worst trailer parks in Hinesville and the
surrounding area you will find us ministering. We are a church made up of
people who were bound by the power of Satan, but have now been set free. We are
free to serve God, not a man.”
Then he lost me a bit when he worded his
next sentence in the following manner (And I think he was GUIDED by Denis on
what to write):
“We love people from all
walks of life. In our church you see whites, Negroes, Latinos and Asian.
There are even some that were formally gay, truly we are a church of all
nations.”
Again this was written in 2017 and I just
thought it harsh to see that he used the “N” word instead of the more commonly
used African American. Maybe since they practice Old-Time Pentecostal he used
that word which was used a lot in older times. I also think he meant to say
formerly gay not formally.
CJ went on to write:
“This is another point of confusion about our church. We are not
“anti-gay”. We believe the Bible’s teachings about traditional marriage, just
like we believe its teachings regarding murder.
The Bible says:
“Therefore,
shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife:
and they shall be one flesh.” Genesis
2:24
Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not
inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor
idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers themselves with
of mankind, ……I Corinthians 6:9
That is what this is all about Ms. Patty. There were some ministers who were living very ungodly and did not want
to be exposed for their immoral closet lifestyle. They were here for over 12
years, and could not accept the Biblical standards for the ministry. We do not
condemn Gays or gay people, but we love them enough to want to help see them
delivered by the blood of Jesus Christ.
The only time we would even expose
someone’s sexuality is if they are in the ministry. We will not tolerate
Gays and lesbians behind the pulpit. Again, this is not because we hate them,
but because we want them to be delivered. Many people in our church have been
delivered from drugs and all manner of immoral lifestyles, including
homosexuality.
Again, we serve Jesus Christ, he is our leader. Denis is
not the leader, it is God the Father, God the Son, and God the Holy Ghost. It
is God that does not want Homosexuals or bi-sexuals in his pulpit, just as much
as he doesn’t want liars or adulterers.
In an email
from Jeff Derby dated 7/4/2017, Derby said the church is not
homophobic, but the church believes it can deliver these folks out of the sin
of being homosexual and that HOPCC “will never
accept gay minister.”
But this is what I’ve learned:
There are at least 5 former HOPCC Pastors that were
kicked out or left after challenging the church.
Denis accused all five of being homosexual or child
molesters only AFTER they left or were ousted. Denis then proceeded to announce
this in front of the entire congregation, including the children. He spread this
lie across all the affiliates’ churches as well.
It truly believe it is a lie.
I know of or know personally at least three of the
five men and they were all STRAIGHT MARRIED MEN.
One of the former pastors lives in North Carolina,
still with his wife and kids. They are lucky and got out. The whole family together.
The other two men are also still with their wives who left when they did.
One man is Arlen Bradeen who I’ve mentioned before and
will soon be posting his devastating story. Denis ruined his marriage of 30
years. Bradeen is now kept away from his former wife and his daughter. I’ve
talked to many folks in the community, and they all say the same thing about
Arlen Bradeen. He is a great guy and didn’t and doesn’t deserve what happened.
When you hear the awful Denis said about him in front
of hundreds of church members and kids it will have you in tears as it did
Bradeen and I when he told me his story.
And within a week of the divorce his ex is already
paired off and about to marry a man Denis chose for her.
Go back for a second a look again at what CJ Vargas
said:
There were some ministers who
were living very ungodly and did not want to be exposed for their immoral
closet lifestyle. They were here for over 12 years, and could not accept the
Biblical standards for the ministry.
The only time we would even expose
someone’s sexuality is if they are in the ministry. We will not tolerate Gays and lesbians behind the pulpit.
The truth is the only time church members were
told or learned that these “ministers
were gay,” was after they were kicked out.
I know the pastor of 12 years
that CJ was talking about. CJ and this former pastor had an exchange of words
during a town hall event that I was there to cover. And it is well-known that
Denis dislikes the man and the others who are trying to show people what is
really transpiring behind those hidden walls.
And how is it that each and every person they
throw out of that church is gay?
Come on!
“Gay” is something Denis has taught everyone
to fear. So once Denis removes someone from the church he labels them gay
KNOWING the church members will not want to associate or even with that person even if
they were best friends…even if they were siblings…..even if they were husband
and wife.
Just another form of control, manipulation, deceit and
fear-mongering.
Definition of a master manipulator
from Psychology Today: Most manipulative
individuals have four common characteristics:
1. They know how to detect your weaknesses.
2. Once found, they use your weaknesses against
you.
3. Through their shrewd machinations, they
convince you to give up something of yourself in order to serve their
self-centered interests.
4. In work, social, and family situations, once a
manipulator succeeds in taking advantage of you, he or she will likely repeat
the violation until you put a stop to the exploitation.
Here is a nice picture of Rony Denis mocking former members.