Email I received about
HOPCC from a woman who pretty much lost her son to the “church”
Dated 10/18/2018 the
names of the people involved have been redacted for their protection
Dear Patty,
I saw your article dated May 20th 2017 concerning the House of Prayer Christian Church (cult). My name is… and I live in…
I saw your article dated May 20th 2017 concerning the House of Prayer Christian Church (cult). My name is… and I live in…
Eight years ago my youngest son…had been
stationed in Washington state Army base and had just exited the Army on
terminal leave after having served his time.
He was living with an army buddy and his wife in Washington. My son has 3 older brothers and one older sister and all the kids had attended Christian Church since they were born. But I didn't believe in pushing my kids to give their lives to Jesus. I wanted it to be their idea and I always prayed for them.
My son called me 8 years ago (as he routinely did) and told me he wanted to accept Christ as His Savior. I told him how happy I was about his decision and that maybe he could do so over the phone with me. He said "No mom ... I want to go to a Church and do it." So I told him to go ahead and do so, and to call afterward & let me know how it went.
I didn't hear from him for several days. Then he called me and told me he was living at House of Prayer Christian Church in Washington in the single men's house. He told me he had given his life to Jesus there. His conversion sounded genuine. But in the next few weeks I was noticing changes in him ... things he was telling me set off alarms in me.
I want you to know, Patty, that my son and I had a very close relationship. He was a very low keyed, sweet and thoughtful son and he loved and cared about me. Let me share just how sweet he was. When he was stationed in Afghanistan in a camp at the foot of a mountain and he would wait in long lines just to call me; to ask how "I" was doing. He wasn't my only concern. I was a mother of three sons in the Army at that time, in Kuwait and Iraq as well as Afghanistan. As a child, he would leave me little love notes ... on my bed, on counters, etc.
He was the child that cheered up our family and made us laugh. He was a comedian as a baby. As a teen and adult, he could say just one word or utter a short sound and have the whole room laughing hysterically. Everyone liked him and he had friends who were all ages from kids to adults, both male and female and all races. Everybody liked him. He would do anything for anyone who needed help. He was well liked by anyone he came in contact with.
My son’s phone calls from Hopcc started to worry me. He sounded mean and angry and was questioning whether our family were really Christians. He began talking about women and how they should dress. His calls would often have me in tears. I told him that I believed he was in a cult. He started to cry and asked me if I wanted him to leave and come home. I said yes. But just as he was packing, one of the men in the singles house saw him packing and went to fetch a "pastor". The pastor ran and intercepted my son; 'love bombing' him and convincing him that one of the ladies in the Church was interested in him.
After that point, my son stopped calling regularly and when he did call, he was angry and judgmental and was trying to convince me that I shouldn't wear pants or make-up, or I'll go to hell. He questioned whether me and his dad were really Christians. Then, his calls began to dwindle off. If I called him, he was mean and told me that the family needed to come to Georgia and join Hopcc. I told him we have a Church already. My son told me if we didn't come, to Hopcc that we were all going to Hell. Patty, I kid you not.
Finally, a few months ago, the cult told him to cut me off completely. They have spies that look around on the internet to see what people are doing or saying about the cult. Since I've been very active along with the ex-members, they must've noticed and told my son he had to cut me off.
He was living with an army buddy and his wife in Washington. My son has 3 older brothers and one older sister and all the kids had attended Christian Church since they were born. But I didn't believe in pushing my kids to give their lives to Jesus. I wanted it to be their idea and I always prayed for them.
My son called me 8 years ago (as he routinely did) and told me he wanted to accept Christ as His Savior. I told him how happy I was about his decision and that maybe he could do so over the phone with me. He said "No mom ... I want to go to a Church and do it." So I told him to go ahead and do so, and to call afterward & let me know how it went.
I didn't hear from him for several days. Then he called me and told me he was living at House of Prayer Christian Church in Washington in the single men's house. He told me he had given his life to Jesus there. His conversion sounded genuine. But in the next few weeks I was noticing changes in him ... things he was telling me set off alarms in me.
I want you to know, Patty, that my son and I had a very close relationship. He was a very low keyed, sweet and thoughtful son and he loved and cared about me. Let me share just how sweet he was. When he was stationed in Afghanistan in a camp at the foot of a mountain and he would wait in long lines just to call me; to ask how "I" was doing. He wasn't my only concern. I was a mother of three sons in the Army at that time, in Kuwait and Iraq as well as Afghanistan. As a child, he would leave me little love notes ... on my bed, on counters, etc.
He was the child that cheered up our family and made us laugh. He was a comedian as a baby. As a teen and adult, he could say just one word or utter a short sound and have the whole room laughing hysterically. Everyone liked him and he had friends who were all ages from kids to adults, both male and female and all races. Everybody liked him. He would do anything for anyone who needed help. He was well liked by anyone he came in contact with.
My son’s phone calls from Hopcc started to worry me. He sounded mean and angry and was questioning whether our family were really Christians. He began talking about women and how they should dress. His calls would often have me in tears. I told him that I believed he was in a cult. He started to cry and asked me if I wanted him to leave and come home. I said yes. But just as he was packing, one of the men in the singles house saw him packing and went to fetch a "pastor". The pastor ran and intercepted my son; 'love bombing' him and convincing him that one of the ladies in the Church was interested in him.
After that point, my son stopped calling regularly and when he did call, he was angry and judgmental and was trying to convince me that I shouldn't wear pants or make-up, or I'll go to hell. He questioned whether me and his dad were really Christians. Then, his calls began to dwindle off. If I called him, he was mean and told me that the family needed to come to Georgia and join Hopcc. I told him we have a Church already. My son told me if we didn't come, to Hopcc that we were all going to Hell. Patty, I kid you not.
Finally, a few months ago, the cult told him to cut me off completely. They have spies that look around on the internet to see what people are doing or saying about the cult. Since I've been very active along with the ex-members, they must've noticed and told my son he had to cut me off.
My son seemed very nervous on the phone that
night and I had the sense that there was someone near him, trying to get him to
do what they said to do. He was breathing nervously and hesitant. Finally he
raised his voice in a mean tone and told me to leave him alone and not contact
him anymore. He was calling me "Ma'am" instead of "Mom".
"Ma'am" is what the cult members use when talking to females. I knew he
was forced to do it, because he has never been a mean person.
Patty...Rony Denis had my son marry a …….woman who had 3 kids from 3 different fathers, about 5-6 years ago. My son is a very handsome man and could've married anyone he wanted. Rony Denis the leader practices putting couples together, or breaking them apart and marrying them to someone else. I'm not sure the marriages are even legal. Everything Rony Denis does is about control. I was told by one of the pastors who was thrown out of the cult a year ago by Denis, that Rony Denis matches couples up strategically to maximize control over the people.
He marries people he has less control over with people that are completely devoted to Denis. Married couples are not allowed to talk about the leader in a negative way. Even the children are taught to tell on their parents if the parents talk negatively about Denis. If Rony Denis tells one person something, they are not allowed to tell their "spouse" what they were told.
Rony Denis also practices planting false memories into the members. He tells them they were molested by their mother or father, and many other similar scenarios, and he makes them admit it in front of the entire congregation. Anyone who pisses Rony Denis off is accused of being homosexual. Rony has a fixation on sexual perversion. He is very charismatic and fakes being divine. A master manipulator.
He commits real estate fraud. He gets members to buy a house in their own names. Then Rony gets the members to rent it out and collects the rents for his own use, until the houses go into foreclosure. From what I've heard, some of the members pay the mortgages and some don't.
The children go to "school" on site and ex members have told me that they aren't taught by teachers; just anyone they can put in there.
Ex members have shared that Rony Denis has requested that the men get vasectomies
and passports.
Patty? This whole situation has slowly killed me. I don't have a life; not like most people do. Every second of everyday my mind is on getting my son back. I cry a lot. Rony Denis is a sick, perverted, mentally disturbed master manipulator.
One of the Pastors was thrown out many months ago for standing up to Rony Denis in front of the entire congregation. Rony accused him of sleeping with 500 men and told him to get out. Then Rony had the whole congregation dance that the Pastor was leaving. This Pastor has a wife and daughter still in the cult and he's been concerned that Denis will put his wife of 30 years marriage, with another man. This Pastor has become a help and support to all the ex-members and to myself. He has a house that can serve as a safe place to go for any members who wish to leave the cult. The members have been informed of this during the protests.
Patty...Rony Denis had my son marry a …….woman who had 3 kids from 3 different fathers, about 5-6 years ago. My son is a very handsome man and could've married anyone he wanted. Rony Denis the leader practices putting couples together, or breaking them apart and marrying them to someone else. I'm not sure the marriages are even legal. Everything Rony Denis does is about control. I was told by one of the pastors who was thrown out of the cult a year ago by Denis, that Rony Denis matches couples up strategically to maximize control over the people.
He marries people he has less control over with people that are completely devoted to Denis. Married couples are not allowed to talk about the leader in a negative way. Even the children are taught to tell on their parents if the parents talk negatively about Denis. If Rony Denis tells one person something, they are not allowed to tell their "spouse" what they were told.
Rony Denis also practices planting false memories into the members. He tells them they were molested by their mother or father, and many other similar scenarios, and he makes them admit it in front of the entire congregation. Anyone who pisses Rony Denis off is accused of being homosexual. Rony has a fixation on sexual perversion. He is very charismatic and fakes being divine. A master manipulator.
He commits real estate fraud. He gets members to buy a house in their own names. Then Rony gets the members to rent it out and collects the rents for his own use, until the houses go into foreclosure. From what I've heard, some of the members pay the mortgages and some don't.
The children go to "school" on site and ex members have told me that they aren't taught by teachers; just anyone they can put in there.
Ex members have shared that Rony Denis has requested that the men get vasectomies
and passports.
Patty? This whole situation has slowly killed me. I don't have a life; not like most people do. Every second of everyday my mind is on getting my son back. I cry a lot. Rony Denis is a sick, perverted, mentally disturbed master manipulator.
One of the Pastors was thrown out many months ago for standing up to Rony Denis in front of the entire congregation. Rony accused him of sleeping with 500 men and told him to get out. Then Rony had the whole congregation dance that the Pastor was leaving. This Pastor has a wife and daughter still in the cult and he's been concerned that Denis will put his wife of 30 years marriage, with another man. This Pastor has become a help and support to all the ex-members and to myself. He has a house that can serve as a safe place to go for any members who wish to leave the cult. The members have been informed of this during the protests.
(This actually is what happened. She is
speaking about former Pastor Arlen Bradeen, who was kicked out around March 2018.
Arlen has since been championing the fight against Rony Denis with the help of
other former members and little ole’ me. Bradeen was still in the middle of his
divorce when his wife introduced him to her future husband as they entered a
divorce hearing. His divorce was signed 7/23/2019. And on 7/30/2019 he learned
his ex-wife had applied for a marriage license with her newly SELECTED
husband. I will be sharing Arlen's story later as well).
Your article from May 2017 seemed to reflect that the information you were given about the cult was limited, unclear and incomplete, due to fragmented information given by ex-members. I thought I would make things a bit more clearer. This cult has affected many lives, having broken up families, marriages and friendships. The waves of pain and destruction are not just limited to the Cult members or ex members. In the last 8 years, I have cried and agonized over the loss of my wonderful son. I've become a shell of a person. If you are a mother, you would know that when a mother's child isn't okay, mom can't be okay.
Your article from May 2017 seemed to reflect that the information you were given about the cult was limited, unclear and incomplete, due to fragmented information given by ex-members. I thought I would make things a bit more clearer. This cult has affected many lives, having broken up families, marriages and friendships. The waves of pain and destruction are not just limited to the Cult members or ex members. In the last 8 years, I have cried and agonized over the loss of my wonderful son. I've become a shell of a person. If you are a mother, you would know that when a mother's child isn't okay, mom can't be okay.
She is somewhat correct
as I had just started to learn about this cult in May 2017. This is just one
email but this is the common theme in ALL the conversations I’ve had with
former members.
Denis and other church
leaders isolate the family that remain inside from having any contact to family
on the outside. They are isolated from most of the outside world as only higher
church officials are allowed to have Smart phones and that is primarily to
check on what “WE” (former members and I) are up to. They are told that having
access to the internet, and social media is a direct path to sin and going to
hell.
And it is true that Denis
tells the entire congregation that people tossed out are either homosexual or
child molester. That will be a more in-depth post for tomorrow.







